{"id":3202,"date":"2019-09-19T00:00:00","date_gmt":"2019-09-19T07:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.sfspca.org\/resource\/pet-loss-support\/"},"modified":"2025-08-06T10:46:26","modified_gmt":"2025-08-06T17:46:26","slug":"pet-loss-support","status":"publish","type":"sfspca-resources","link":"https:\/\/www.sfspca.org\/resource\/pet-loss-support\/","title":{"rendered":"Pet Loss Support"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>This group is open to any pet guardians and\/or pet family members who would like support coping with the loss of a pet(s). Participants must be 18 years or older. Please see details below.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>When:<\/strong> First Tuesday of every month from 7:30-9:00pm.<br \/>\nNo registration required.<br \/>\nPlease arrive between 7:25-7:30pm as late entry will not be possible.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Where: <\/strong>SF SPCA Adoption Center, Geraldi Building,<br \/>\n250 Florida St, San Francisco, CA 94103<\/li>\n<li><strong>Directions<\/strong>: You can enter the Geraldi Building on 16th Street, near the corner of Florida Street. There will be signs directing you to the door and facilitators will be nearby before the group starts to help you navigate. Please note, you will <strong>NOT<\/strong> be able to enter the building from the SF SPCA\u2019s Veterinary Hospital on Alabama Street nor through the SF SPCA\u2019s Adoption Center or parking lot.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Accessibility: <\/strong>Group will be held on the first floor. There is a ramp located in the Adoptions Parking Lot towards Geraldi Building. Masks are recommended but not required.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Transport: <\/strong>Street parking is free and available in the neighborhood. The closest BART station is <em>16th St Mission<\/em> and there are several MUNI stops (Lines 22, 33, 55, 27) nearby.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Contact:\u00a0<\/strong>petloss@sfspca.org<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h4>About the Pet Loss Support Group<\/h4>\n<p>Pet guardians often feel isolated and misunderstood when coping with the death of a cherished animal companion. Recognizing the need to provide bereaved pet owners with critical support, the San Francisco SPCA continues to offer ongoing pet loss support groups.<\/p>\n<p>In 1982, the SF SPCA became the first humane society to offer a regular monthly grief counseling service\u2014led by grief counselor Dr. Betty Carmack. Although Dr. Carmack has since retired, the monthly support group continued under the supervision of Dr. Cori Bussolari, associate professor of counseling psychology at the University of San Francisco. \u201cThe universality of the group is key\u2014being able to express your emotions to others who can understand and relate helps provide validation. This group is exceptionally important for those who are grieving the loss of a beloved animal,\u201d she explains. The support group is currently co-facilitated by Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists Sharleen Phillips and Shaina Madfes, who both trained under Dr. Bussolari and have been involved with the group since Fall 2017.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<h3>Other Resources<\/h3>\n<h4>Web Sites<\/h4>\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/www.aplb.org\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">http:\/\/www.aplb.org<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/www.petloss.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">http:\/\/www.petloss.com<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"http:\/\/www.pet-loss.net\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">http:\/\/www.pet-loss.net<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h4>Reading Material<\/h4>\n<ul>\n<li><em><strong>Grieving the Death of a Pet <\/strong><\/em>By Dr. Betty Carmack, R.N., Ed.D., Augsburg Publishers 2003<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.sfspca.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/09\/losing-a-best-friend.pdf\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><em><strong>Losing A Best Friend<\/strong><\/em>,<\/a>\u00a0 a collection of articles compiled by the San Francisco SPCA<\/li>\n<li><em><strong>Pet Loss: A Thoughtful Guide for Adults and Children <\/strong><\/em>By Herbert A. Nieburg and Arlene Fischer, Harper &amp; Row, 1982<\/li>\n<li><strong><em>When Your Pet Dies: How To Cope With Your Feelings <\/em><\/strong>By James E. Quackenbush and D. Graveline, Simon and Schuster, 1985<\/li>\n<li><em><strong>Living Through Personal Crisis <\/strong><\/em>By Ann Kaiser Stearns, Ballantine, 1984<\/li>\n<li><em><strong>Coping With Sorrow On The Loss of Your Pet <\/strong><\/em>By Moira Anderson, M.Ed, Alpine Blue Ribbon Books, 1996<\/li>\n<li><em><strong>The Grief Recovery Handbook for Pet Loss <\/strong><\/em>By Russell Friedman, Cole James, and John W. James, Taylor Trade Publishing, 2014<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h4>Books For Children<\/h4>\n<ul>\n<li><em><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/kindle-dbs\/entity\/author\/B07JR1P1J6?_encoding=UTF8&amp;node=283155&amp;offset=0&amp;pageSize=12&amp;sort=author-pages-popularity-rank&amp;page=1#formatSelectorHeader\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">You&#8217;re Still With Me <\/a><\/strong><\/em>By Lisa M. Algee, E.F. Tongson, 2018<\/li>\n<li><em><strong>Helping Children to Cope with Separation &amp; Loss <\/strong><\/em>By Claudia Jewitt, Harvard Common, 1992<\/li>\n<li><em><strong>Snowflake in My Hand <\/strong><\/em>By Samantha Mooney, Delacorte, 1983<\/li>\n<li><em><strong>The Tenth Good Thing About Barney <\/strong><\/em>By Judith Viorst, Atheneum, 1975<\/li>\n<li><em><strong>When A Pet Dies <\/strong><\/em>By Fred Rogers, G.P. Putnam&#8217;s Sons, 1988<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h4>Virtual Pet Loss Support Resources<\/h4>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Peninsula Humane Society: <\/strong>Zoom support groups on the 2nd Thursday of the month from 7:00pm to 8:30pm PST. Zoom link and additional information can be found at<a href=\"https:\/\/phs-spca.org\/grief\"> https:\/\/phs-spca.org\/grief\u00a0<\/a><\/li>\n<li><strong>Marin Humane Society: <\/strong>Zoom support groups on the 1st Monday of the month from 6:00pm to 7:30pm PST. Additional information can be found at <a href=\"https:\/\/www.marinhumane.org\/above-beyond\/community-engagement\/pet-loss\/\">https:\/\/www.marinhumane.org\/above-beyond\/community-engagement\/pet-loss\/<\/a>Please call Mimi De Gennaro, LCSW (415) 444-9205 to register and obtain the Zoom link.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Berkeley Humane Society: <\/strong>Free virtual pet loss support group every 2nd Wednesday of the month, 7:00pm to 8:30pm PST. For more information, please call Jill Goodfriend, RN, LCSW at (510) 393-1359.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Pet Cloud: <\/strong>Online pet loss support chat rooms every Sunday from 3:00pm to 7:15pm PST. For more information and to register, please visit <a href=\"http:\/\/www.petcloud.pet\/\">petcloud.pet\u00a0<\/a><\/li>\n<li><strong>Rainbow Bridge: <\/strong>Pet loss grief support chat room open daily from 5:00am to 9:00am PST and from 9:00am to 12:00pm PST on Tuesday, Thursday, Saturday, and Sunday. 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